morgan, sara and i had a "meeting" last night. well, actually we were just sitting around having dinner but we decided to make a list of what we want to see for the three of us in this coming jewish new year:
- continue talking openly and honestly, even when it hurts
- keep listening to one another, even when it is painful
- more funny movies together
- more belly laughing together
- talk about Daddy, miss him, have/share good memories about him
- to feel "normal" - this was Sara's suggestion. Morgan and I both expressed to her that we don't believe in "normal" anymore, but rather we are certain that we/she will feel "different" than we/she feels today.
- plan outings for the three of us including field trips to see shows, go to the theater, lacma, bike riding, yoga
- spend time our people
- expression of ourselves in the way that is best for us individually
- to take what we need, and kindly say what we don't
- to keep taking stock of who we are becoming, what we have accomplished and what we have.
we feel this is a solid start.
today, our friend passed away. our hearts feel heavy for this family. we send love and strength their way.
meeting H to spin before big bat mitzvah prepping.
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